Deception -- a complete lack of personal responsibility

a quote from Annette John-Hall about lack of personal responsibility:

"the continued refusal ... to accept --
"a don't-ask, don't-tell understanding that only leads to secretive liaisons ...
and a deception that comes with it,
a complete lack of personal responsibility,
that could lead to deadly consequences"

http://www.philly.com/inquirer/
local/20080226_Annette_John-Hall