Sunday, May 21, 2006

Humility, Purity, Honesty, and Simplicity

"If I were to say that God sent me, I shall be condemned, but God really did send me."

~ Joan of Arc

http://www.christianitytoday.com/history/
special/131christians/joanofarc.html
The dauphin Charles turned her over to churchmen from the University of Poitiers. Weeks of doubt and indecision followed while she was questioned, but finally her examiners found "only humility, purity, honesty, and simplicity." Soon she was helping 4,000 troops to relieve the besieged city of Orleans. ...

In a few months, the town of Reims was recaptured, and the dauphin was officially crowned king of France (Reims was the traditional city for coronation). ... On a sortie the next year, the 18-year-old soldier was captured by the English, who put her on ecclesiastical trial in Rouen.

Joan was imprisoned for nearly five months, repeatedly questioned about her views, and finally charged on 70 counts of heresy. ...

At 9 a.m. on May 30, 1431, 19-year-old Joan walked toward the market square. She knelt and prayed for her enemies, then mounted the prepared pyre. As the flames leapt upward, Joan asked for a cross to be held before her. Gazing upon it, her final word was "Jesus."

It would be 25 years before a church commission overturned the charges against her and declared her innocent. In 1920 Joan-—remembered for her heroism and devotion far more than her military and political conquests—-was canonized a saint by the Roman Catholic Church.

Friday, May 19, 2006

He knew far more than she realized

Right after World War II, a U.S. Army officer and his wife were stationed in Japan. That country had been devastated by the war. The post-war economy was in shambles. Unemployment approached 60%. People came to the Army wife's door daily looking for work.

One man said that he could do wonders for her garden if she would only give him a chance. So, for the first time in her life, this young Army wife hired a gardener. He spoke no English, but the wife, through sign language and pencil and paper gave him instructions about where to plant, prune, and pamper her garden. He listened politely and followed her instructions exactly. The garden emerged as the finest in the neighborhood.

When she finally realized that her new gardener knew far more about the matter than she, the wife stopped giving him directions and let him freely care for the garden. It was magnificent.

Then one day the gardener came with an interpreter who expressed the appreciation but the regrets of the gardener. "He will no longer be able to care for your garden. He must leave."

The wife expressed her regrets and thanked him through the interpreter for making hers such a fine garden. Out of politeness, she asked the interpreter, "Where is he going?"

The interpreter replied that the gardener was returning to his old job as the Professor of Horticulture at the University of Tokyo.

illustrations@clergy.net
for Ascension Sunday
Acts 1:1-11 or Lk 24:44-53 - Why Do You Standing Looking Into the Sky?

The Right Thing

Do the right thing. It will gratify some people and astonish the rest.

~ Mark Twain

Wednesday, May 17, 2006

I Am the One Who Jesus Loves

I Am the One Who Jesus Loves

Author and speaker Brennan Manning came up with a slogan. The slogan is, "I am the one Jesus loves." It sounds a little arrogant doesn't it? But he is actually quoting Scripture. Jesus' closest friend on earth, the disciple named John, is identified in the Gospels as "the one Jesus loved." Manning said, "If John were to be asked, 'What is your primary identity in life?' he would not reply, 'I am a disciple, an apostle, an evangelist, an author of one of the four Gospels,' but rather, 'I am the one Jesus loves.'"
What would it mean, I ask myself, if I too came to the place where I saw my primary identity in life as "the one Jesus loves"? How differently would I view myself at the end of a day? Sociologists have a theory of the looking-glass self: you become what the most important person in your life (wife, father, boss, etc.) thinks you are. How would my life change if I truly believed the Bible's astounding words about God's love for me, if I looked in the mirror and saw what God sees?
Brennan Manning tells the story of an Irish priest who, on a walking tour of a rural parish, sees an old peasant kneeling by the side of the road, praying. Impressed, the priest says to the man, "You must be very close to God." The peasant looks up from his prayers, thinks a moment, and then smiles, "Yes, he's very fond of me."

Brett Blair, www.eSermons.com Adapted from Phillip Yancey, What's So Amazing about Grace? [pp. 68-69]
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Love: Greater Than Faith or Hope

In a beautiful sermon entitled "The Power of Love," Paul Tillich, one of the great theological minds of the twentieth century, writes of a Swedish woman who aided prisoners and orphans during the first World War. She ended up in a concentration camp herself because she gave aid and comfort. Tillich writes, "It is a rare gift to meet a human being in whom love—this means God–is so overwhelmingly manifest. It undercuts theological arrogance as well as pious isolation. It is more than justice and greater than faith or hope. It is the very presence of God in the form of a human being. For God is love. In every moment of genuine love we are dwelling in God and God in us."

Rev. Patricia de Jong, "Partners and Friends"
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Tuesday, May 16, 2006

To Find Love

Where you find no love, put love,
and you will find love.

~ St. John of the Cross

Wednesday, May 10, 2006

Three Stages of Truth

All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident.

~ Arthur Schopenhauer
Google Quote of the Day

Tuesday, May 09, 2006

Original Ideas

"Don't worry about people stealing an idea. If it's original, you will have to ram it down their throats."

~ Howard Aiken
Google Quote of the Day

Sunday, May 07, 2006

Fear is Nothing but a Barrier

"If you want to do something, do it. Fear is nothing but a barrier."

~ Tina Hammer

Dancing at the Party

"Life may not be the party we hoped for... but while we are here we might as well dance!"

~ author unknown

How SJ Leaders Give Appreciation

quote from Please Understand Me II
by David Keirsey

Given that appreciation of their subordinates' contributions is a powerful tool for any leader, how do Guardian [SJ] leaders show their appreciation? How do they give strokes? ...

Since SJs must always earn their keep, including the earning of appreciation, only those employees who have been most hard-working should be appreciated. Otherwise (the unconscious belief dictates) employees might become less industrious. Giving credit where credit isn't most deserved would be bad for morale; therefore, only the winner can receive the grand prize. Those in second and third place may receive a blue and green ribbon, but no other player gets anything.

Traditionalist leaders would do well to examine their implicit belief that only the truly deserving may be shown appreciation, and that these can be only the outstanding few. To be most effective, SJ leaders must train themselves to pay attention to the least achievement and deliberately reward those achievements just because they were achieved. They need to experiment with finding something, no matter how trifling, the least productive employee has contributed, and to express appreciation for that.

Tuesday, May 02, 2006

Why Follow Jesus?

"I know I would live a worse life without him, and I would always be lonely."

~ Rev. Dr. Gilbert W. Bowen

Monday, May 01, 2006

Abraham Lincoln Quotes

The best way to destroy an enemy is to make him a friend.
Abraham Lincoln

"A drop of honey catches more flies than a gallon of gall." So with men. If you would win a man to your cause, first convince him that you are his sincere friend. Therein is a drop of honey which catches his heart, which, say what he will, is the highroad to his reason.
Abraham Lincoln

America will never be destroyed from the outside. If we falter and lose our freedoms, it will be because we destroyed ourselves.
Abraham Lincoln

Character is like a tree and reputation like a shadow. The shadow is what we think of it; the tree is the real thing.
Abraham Lincoln

Give me six hours to chop down a tree and I will spend the first four sharpening the axe.
Abraham Lincoln

He has a right to criticize, who has a heart to help.
Abraham Lincoln

I care not much for a man's religion whose dog and cat are not the better for it.
Abraham Lincoln

If you call a tail a leg, how many legs has a dog? Five? No, calling a tail a leg don't make it a leg.
Abraham Lincoln

If you look for the bad in people expecting to find it, you surely will.
Abraham Lincoln

I will prepare and some day my chance will come.
Abraham Lincoln

I never had a policy; I have just tried to do my very best each and every day.
Abraham Lincoln

I have been driven many times to my knees by the overwhelming conviction that I had nowhere to go. My own wisdom, and that of all about me, seemed insufficient for the day.
Abraham Lincoln

Important principles may, and must, be inflexible.
Abraham Lincoln

It is the eternal struggle between these two principles - right and wrong. They are the two principles that have stood face to face from the beginning of time and will ever continue to struggle. It is the same spirit that says, "You work and toil and earn bread, and I'll eat it."
Abraham Lincoln

Most folks are as happy as they make up their minds to be.
Abraham Lincoln

Nearly all men can stand adversity, but if you want to test a man's character, give him power.
Abraham Lincoln

Tact is the ability to describe others as they see themselves.
Abraham Lincoln

The highest art is always the most religious, and the greatest artist is always a devout person.
Abraham Lincoln

The shepherd drives the wolf from the sheep's for which the sheep thanks the shepherd as his liberator, while the wolf denounces him for the same act as the destroyer of liberty. Plainly, the sheep and the wolf are not agreed upon a definition of liberty.
Abraham Lincoln

The time comes upon every public man when it is best for him to keep his lips closed.
Abraham Lincoln

Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle.
Abraham Lincoln

To ease another's heartache is to forget one's own.
Abraham Lincoln

To give victory to the right, not bloody bullets, but peaceful ballots only, are necessary.
Abraham Lincoln

Towering genius disdains a beaten path. It seeks regions hitherto unexplored.
Abraham Lincoln

We should be too big to take offense and too noble to give it.
Abraham Lincoln

What kills a skunk is the publicity it gives itself.
Abraham Lincoln

When I am getting ready to reason with a man, I spend one-third of my time thinking about myself and what I am going to say and two-thirds about him and what he is going to say.
Abraham Lincoln

When I do good, I feel good. When I do bad, I feel bad. That's my religion.
Abraham Lincoln

With Malice toward none, with charity for all, with firmness in the right, as God gives us to see the right, let us strive on to finish the work we are in, to bind up the nation's wounds.
Abraham Lincoln

You can fool all the people some of the time, and some of the people all the time, but you cannot fool all the people all the time.
Abraham Lincoln

You cannot build character and courage by taking away a man's initiative and independence.
Abraham Lincoln

You cannot escape the responsibility of tomorrow by evading it today.
Abraham Lincoln

You cannot help men permanently by doing for them what they could and should do for themselves.
Abraham Lincoln

You have to do your own growing no matter how tall your grandfather was.
Abraham Lincoln

Friday, April 28, 2006

Another Beatitude

Another Beatitude
by Elizabeth Clark

Blessed are they who understand
my faltering step and shaking hand.
Blessed, who know my ears today
must strain to catch the things they say.
Blessed are they who seem to know
my eyes are dim and my mind is slow.
Blessed are they who looked away;
I spilled my tea on the cloth that day!
Blessed are they who, with cheery smile,
stopped to chat for a little while.
Blessed are they who know the way
to bring back memories of yesterday.
Blessed are they who never say,
"You told that story twice today!"
Blessed are they who make it known
that I am loved, respected and not alone.
And blessed are they who will ease the days
of my journey home, in loving ways.

Tuesday, April 25, 2006

Science Quotes From Kids

When they broke open molecules, they found they were only stuffed with atoms. But when they broke open atoms, they found them stuffed with explosions.

~ Rainbows

Rainbows are just to look at, not to really understand.

~ Sun Clocks

Some people can tell what time it is by looking at the sun. But I have never been able to make out the numbers.

~ The Sun

Most books now say our sun is a star. But it still knows how to change back into a sun in the daytime.

The tides are a fight between the Earth and Moon. All water tends towards the moon, because there is no water in the moon, and nature abhors a vacuum. I forget where the sun joins in this fight.

While the earth seems to be knowingly keeping its distance from the sun, it is really only centrificating.

~ Thunder and Lightning

You can listen to thunder after lightning and tell how close you came to getting hit. If you don't hear it you got hit, so never mind.

~ Water

In looking at a drop of water under a microscope, we find there are twice as many H's as O's.

Water freezes at 32 degrees and boils at 212 degrees. There are 180 degrees between freezing and boiling because there are 180 degrees between north and south.

Water is composed of two gins, Oxygin and Hydrogin. Oxygin is pure gin. Hydrogin is gin and water.

H20 is hot water, and CO2 is cold water.

~ Clouds and Rain

I am not sure how clouds get formed. But the clouds know how to do it, and that is the important thing.

Water vapor gets together in a cloud. When it is big enough to be called a drop, it does.

Humidity is the experience of looking for air and finding water. We keep track of the humidity in the air so we won't drown when we breathe.

Rain is saved up in cloud banks.

Rain is often known as soft water, oppositely known as hail.

~ Weather

Isotherms and isobars are even more important than their names sound.

South America has cold summers and hot winters, but somehow they still manage.

A monsoon is a French gentleman.

The four seasons are salt, pepper, mustard and vinegar.

~ Living Things

When you breathe, you inspire. When you do not breathe, you expire.

The body consists of three parts - the brainium, the borax and the abominable cavity. The brainium contains the brain, the borax contains the heart and lungs, and the abominable cavity contains the bowels, of which there are five - a, e, i, o and u.

Artificial insemination is when the farmer does it to the cow instead of the bull.

Blood flows down one leg and up the other.

Liter: A nest of young puppies.

Before giving a blood transfusion, find out if the blood is affirmative or negative.

There are 26 vitamins in all, but some of the letters are yet to be discovered. Finding them all means living forever.

The spinal column is a long bunch of bones. The head sits on the top and you sit on the bottom.

In spring, the salmon swim upstream to spoon.

The inhabitants of Moscow are called Mosquitoes.

A census taker is man who goes from house to house increasing the population.

We do not raise silk worms in the United States, because we get our silk from rayon. He is a larger worm and gives more silk.

One by-product of raising cattle is calves.

~ Plants

Dew is formed on leaves when the sun shines down on them and makes them perspire.

Mushrooms always grow in damp places and so they look like umbrellas.

Germinate: To become a naturalized German.

The pistol of a flower is its only protections against insects.

~ Physics

Vacuum: A large, empty space where the pope lives.

One horsepower is the amount of energy it takes to drag a horse 500 feet in one second.

When they broke open molecules, they found they were only stuffed with atoms. But when they broke open atoms, they found them stuffed with explosions.

Someday we may discover how to make magnets that can point in any direction.

The law of gravity says no fair jumping up without coming back down

~ Astronomy

When people run around and around in circles, we say they are crazy. When planets do it, we say they are orbiting.

The moon is a planet, just like the earth, only it is even deader.

Planet: A body of Earth surrounded by sky.

~ Fossils and Dinosaurs

Many dead animals of the past changed to fossils, others preferred to become oil.

In some rocks you can find the fossil footprints of fishes.

The Big Four:
Weight Length Height
Blue Whale 120 tons 25 m (80 ft) 5 m (17 ft)
Brachiosaurus 80 tons 23 m (77 ft) 12 m (40 ft)
Mammoth 9 tons 7 m (23 ft) 4.5 m (15 ft)
African Elephant 6 tons 6 m (20 ft) 3 m (10 feet)

~ Dogs

Cyanide is so poisonous that one drop of it on a dog's tongue will kill the strongest man.

For dog bite put the dog away for several days. If he has not recovered, then kill it.

~ Genetics

Genetics explains why you look like your father and if you don't why you should.

Go to the Whole World

Go to the World

Jesus did not command the whole world to go to church. Jesus commanded his church to go to the whole world.

~ Traditional

Some Other Cause for Prejudice

If we were to wake up some morning and find that everyone was the same race, creed and color, we would find some other cause for prejudice by noon.

~ George Aiken

Shuffling Around on the Edge of Heaven

Garrison Keillor once said, in one of his famous Prairie Home Companion
soliloquies,

"My people are not Paradise people. We've lived in Minnesota all of our lives and it has taken a lot out of us. My people aren't sure they'll even like paradise: not sure perfection is all its cracked up to be. My people will arrive in heaven and stand just inside the gate, shuffling around. It's a lot bigger than I thought it was going to be, they might say. We'll say, "No thank you, we can't stay for eternity, we'll just sit and have a few minutes of bliss and then we have to get back!"

~ Garrison Keillor, Prairie Home Companion

Saturday, April 15, 2006

"I made a mistake. My answer was wrong."

Ask Marilyn
Marilyn vos Savant
Published: November 27, 2005
Parade.com Magazine

Q. Not long ago, it was pointed out that one of your responses was wrong. You replied that you were "mistaken." Why didn't you just admit that you were wrong, or do you think "wrong" and "mistaken" are the same thing?
—Lewis Jones, Ruston, La.

A. I don't identify with my work, so I never say (or even think) that "I was right" or "I was wrong." Instead, I would say, "I made a mistake. My answer was wrong."

Remember

"When you remember me, it means that you have carried something of who I am with you, that I have left some mark of who I am on who you are. It means that you can summon me back to your mind even though countless years and miles may stand between us. It means that if we meet again, you will know me. It means that even after I die, you can still see my face and hear my voice and speak to me in your heart.

For as long as you remember me, I am never entirely lost. When I'm feeling most ghost-like, it's your remembering me that helps remind me that I actually exist. When I'm feeling sad, it's my consolation. When I'm feeling happy, it's part of why I feel that way.

If you forget me, one of the ways I remember who I am will be gone. If you forget me, part of who I am will be gone.

'Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom,' the good thief said from his cross (Luke 23:42). There are perhaps no more human words in all of Scripture, no prayer we can pray so well."

Frederick Buechner
Whistling in the Dark, p. 100

Friday, April 14, 2006

Peace Quotes

"Go home and love someone."

Upon receiving the Nobel prize, Mother Teresa was asked:
"What can one ordinary person do to promote world peace?"
She replied: "Go home and love someone."

Love without measure, one day at a time, the one person who is before you at any one moment.
~ Mother Theresa

http://www.saintmarkpresby.org/pagepastmeditations.htm

St. Theresa's Prayer

May today there be peace within.
May you trust God that you are exactly where you are meant to be.
May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith.
May you use those gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you....
May you be content knowing you are a child of God.
Let this presence settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love.
It is there for each and every one of you.

"Saint Theresa is known as the Saint of the Little Ways. Meaning she believed in doing the little things in life well and with great love She is also the patron Saint of flower growers and florists. She is represented by roses.”
http://www.cotwest.com/1/COTW/prayers.asp?NsID=2995

Have courage for the great sorrows of life and patience for the small ones; and when you have laboriously accomplished your daily task, go to sleep in peace. God is awake.
~ Victor Hugo (1802 - 1885)

Another possible source of guidance for teenagers is television, but television's message has always been that the need for truth, wisdom and world peace pales by comparison with the need for a toothpaste that offers whiter teeth *and* fresher breath.
~ Dave Barry (1947 - ), "Kids Today: They Don't Know Dum Diddly Do"

There is no need to go to India or anywhere else to find peace. You will find that deep place of silence right in your room, your garden or even your bathtub.
~ Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

If you want to make peace, you don't talk to your friends. You talk to your enemies.
~ Moshe Dayan (1915 - 1981)

There is plenty of peace in any home where the family doesn't make the mistake of trying to get together.
~ Kin Hubbard (1868 - 1930)

Those who make peaceful revolution impossible will make violent revolution inevitable.
~ John F. Kennedy (1917 - 1963), In a speech at the White House, 1962

And the work of righteousness shall be peace; and the effect of righteousness quietness and assurance for ever.
~ Bible, Isaiah 32:17

Lord, make me an instrument of Your peace!
Where there is hatred let me sow love;
Where there is injury, pardon;
Where there is doubt, faith;
Where there is despair, hope;
Where there is darkness, light;
Where there is sadness, joy.
~ Saint Francis of Assisi (1181 - 1226), "Prayer of St Francis" (attributed)

Attacking is the only secret. Dare and the world always yields; or if it beats you sometimes, dare it again and it will succumb.
~ William Makepeace Thackeray (1811 - 1863)

He that would live in peace and at ease, must not speak all he knows nor judge all he sees.
~ Benjamin Franklin (1706 - 1790)

I do not want the peace which passeth understanding, I want the understanding which bringeth peace.
~ Helen Keller (1880 - 1968)

Mercy and truth are met together: righteousness and peace have kissed each other.
~ Bible, Psalm 85:10.

Her ways are ways of pleasantness, and all her paths are peace.
~ Bible, Proverbs 3:17.

All of us who are concerned for peace and triumph of reason and justice must be keenly aware how small an influence reason and honest good will exert upon events in the political field.
~ Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)

The hope of a secure and livable world lies with disciplined nonconformists who are dedicated to justice, peace and brotherhood.
~ Martin Luther King Jr. (1929 - 1968), "Strength to Love"

With malice toward none, with charity for all, with firmness in the right as God gives us to see the right, let us strive to finish the work we are in, to bind up the nation's wounds. . . to do all which may achieve and cherish a just and lasting peace among ourselves, and with all nations.
~ Abraham Lincoln (1809 - 1865)

The most merciful thing in the world, I think, is the inability of the human mind to correlate all its contents. We live on a placid island of ignorance in the midst of black seas of infinity, and it was not meant that we should voyage far. The sciences, each straining in its own direction, have hitherto harmed us little; but some day the piecing together of dissociated knowledge will open up such terrifying vistas of reality, and of our frightful position therein, that we shall either go mad from the revelation or flee from the deadly light into the peace and safety of a new dark age.
~ H.P. Lovecraft, "The Call of Cthulhu"

If the Prince of Peace should come to earth, one of the first things he would do would be to put psychiatrists in their place.
~ Aldous Huxley (1894 - 1963)

We always prefer war on our terms to peace on someone else's.
~ Author Unknown

The true and solid peace of nations consists not in equality of arms, but in mutual trust alone.
~ Pope John XXIII

Every kind of peaceful cooperation among men is primarily based on mutual trust and only secondarily on institutions such as courts of justice and police.
~ Albert Einstein (1879 - 1955)

The motivation for all personal behavior is to produce a sense of "FEEL GOOD," a sense of inner peace and well being. To expect a person to go against his desire to feel good or as good as he can feel under any momentary condition is illogical and irrational. In the observation of human behavior, one will notice every human act is a response to a personal need. This is true whether one signs a million dollar contract, scratches one's nose, rolls over in bed, or just day dreams his life away. People will do things which seem contrary to this concept, but the bottom line is they perceive some kind of payoff which will make them feel good. And the payoff is almost always emotional.
When you ask people why they want to be financially independent, they might say that they could buy things without having to worry about where the money will come from. And when they worry, they don't FEEL GOOD. A drug addict, a compulsive eater, an alcoholic and anyone with a compulsive habit will continue with their habits because at the moment of action they believe and feel it will make them feel good. That is why breaking compulsive habits are so difficult.
~ Sidney Madwed

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Monday, April 10, 2006

Endless Follow-Up

"A onetime personal aide of President Truman once put the matter to me in this way: 'The most startling thing a new President discovers is that, in the world of the Presidency, giving an order does not end the matter. Nothing gets done except by endless follow-up, endless kissing and coaxing, endless threatening and compelling. ... And they're all testing you. How much can they get away with? How much authority can they take? How much authority do you want them to have?'"

The Making of the President: 1960
Theodore H. White

Newly Married

Mr. Chips remembers his marriage to Katherine

quoted from Chapters 5 & 6:

"So clearly it lingered, that time of dizzy happiness, those evening strolls by the waterside, her cool voice and her gay laughter. She had been a very happy person, always.

They had both been so eager, planning a future together; but he had been rather serious about it, even a little awed. …

There had followed then a time of such happiness that Chips, remembering it long afterward, hardly believed it could ever have happened before or since in the world. For his marriage was a triumphant success. Katherine conquered Brookfield as she had conquered Chips; she was immensely popular with boys and masters alike. Even the wives of the masters, tempted at first to be jealous of one so young and lovely, could not long resist her charms.

But most remarkable of all was the change she made in Chips. Till his marriage he had been a dry and rather neutral sort of person; liked and thought well of by Brookfield in general, but not of the stuff that makes for great popularity or that stirs great affection. He had been at Brookfield for over a quarter of a century, long enough to have established himself as a decent fellow and a hard worker; but just too long for anyone to believe him capable of ever being much more. He had, in fact, already begun to sink into that creeping dry rot of pedagogy which is the worst and ultimate pitfall of the profession; giving the same lessons year after year had formed a groove into which the other affairs of his life adjusted themselves with insidious ease. He worked well; he was conscientious; he was a fixture that gave service, satisfaction, confidence, everything except inspiration.

And then came this astonishing girl-wife whom nobody had expected--least of all Chips himself. She made him, to all appearances, a new man; though most of the newness was really a warming to life of things that were old, imprisoned, and unguessed. His eyes gained sparkle; his mind, which was adequately if not brilliantly equipped, began to move more adventurously. The one thing he had always had, a sense of humor, blossomed into a sudden richness to which his years lent maturity. He began to feel a greater sureness; his discipline improved to a point at which it could become, in a sense, less rigid; he became more popular. … Obedience he had secured, and honor had been granted him; but only now came love, the sudden love of boys for a man who was kind without being soft, who understood them well enough, but not too much, and whose private happiness linked them with their own. He began to make little jokes, the sort that schoolboys like--mnemonics and puns that raised laughs and at the same time imprinted something in the mind. …

And Kathie broadened his views and opinions, also, giving him an outlook far beyond the roofs and turrets of Brookfield, so that he saw his country as something deep and gracious to which Brookfield was but one of many feeding streams. She had a cleverer brain than his, and he could not confuse her ideas even if and when he disagreed with them; he remained, for instance, a Conservative in politics, despite all her radical-socialist talk. But even where he did not accept, he absorbed; her young idealism worked upon his maturity to produce an amalgam very gentle and wise."

Goodbye, Mr. Chips
James Hilton
1934

Saturday, April 08, 2006

I Am His, and He Is Mine

Loved with everlasting love, led by grace that love to know;
Gracious Spirit from above, Thou hast taught me it is so!
O this full and perfect peace! O this transport all divine!
In a love which cannot cease, I am His, and He is mine.
In a love which cannot cease, I am His, and He is mine.

His forever, only His; Who the Lord and me shall part?
Ah, with what a rest of bliss Christ can fill the loving heart!
Heav’n and earth may fade and flee, firstborn light in gloom decline;
But while God and I shall be, I am His, and He is mine.
But while God and I shall be, I am His, and He is mine.

Words: George W. Ro­bin­son, 1876.
Music: “Ev­er­last­ing Love,” James Mount­ain, 1876, Hymns of Con­se­cra­tion and Faith.

Fairer than Death

Life isn't fair. It's just fairer than death, that's all.
~ William Goldman

Friday, April 07, 2006

Find your place and your rhythm

"People do tend to flip out about [the swim portion of a triathlon] because it's the first leg, so everyone's all bunched together, and it's tough to see where you are in open water [many triathlons are held in lakes or in the ocean]. But I love it. Sure, it's chaotic--people kicking you, even swimming over you. But once you find your place and your rhythm ... it's all good. I don't mind it at all. In fact, I kinda like it."

singer/songwriter Shawn Colvin
winner of a Grammy for her song "Sunny Came Home"
diane, Spring 2006

Tuesday, April 04, 2006

The donkey had to be untied before Jesus could use it.

About the Donkey

People often speak of donkeys in belittling terms. You may have heard the expression, "I'm just someone who has to do all the donkey work." Or "So-and-so is as stubborn as a mule" (a mule is part donkey).

These sayings overlook the contributions of a truly valuable animal. Donkeys have served the human race for thousands of years. They were once prized as symbols of humility, gentleness, and peace.

In Bible days, donkeys that had never been ridden were regarded as especially suitable for religious purposes. So it was most fitting that Jesus sent for a colt to perform the royal task of carrying Him into Jerusalem. How enviable was that donkey's mission! How like our mission as Jesus' followers!

A missionary in China calls herself "the Lord's donkey." She's a humble believer, "carrying" her Lord faithfully into town after town and training others to do likewise. The Lord has need of many such "donkeys" in today's world, humble people who will carry Him into their Jerusalem and make Him known.

The donkey had to be untied before Jesus could use it. We too must be released from worldly attachments if we are to serve Christ. Are we willing to be the Lord's donkey?

~ Our Daily Bread, March 24, 2001

Tithe if you love Jesus

Bumper Stickers:
"Honk if you love Jesus."
"Tithe if you love Jesus. Anyone can honk."

Sunday, April 02, 2006

Martyrs and Saints

The martyrs are sometimes the ones who live with the saints.

~ author unknown

grief, the open wound of the heart . . .

Honoré de Balzac - Beatrix
Chapter XVII - A Death: A Marriage

"Do you blame me, darling mother, for having wished to reconnoitre the extent of the grief, the open wound of the heart of which you warned me?"

http://pluckerbooks.com/works/balzachd/beatrix/chapter17.html

Divine Mercy from the open wound of the Heart of Jesus

Praises of The Divine Mercy (949)

The Love of God is the flower - Mercy the fruit. Let the doubting soul read these considerations of Divine Mercy and become trusting.

Divine Mercy, gushing forth from the bosom of the Father, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, greatest attribute of God, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, incomprehensible mystery, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, fount gushing forth from the mystery of the Most Blessed Trinity, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, unfathomed by any intellect, human or angelic, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, from which wells forth all life and happiness, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, better than the heavens, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, source of miracles and wonders, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, encompassing the whole universe, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, descending to earth in the Person of the Incarnate Word, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, which flowed out from the open wound of the Heart of Jesus, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, enclosed in the Heart of Jesus for us, and especially for sinners, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, unfathomed in the institution of the Sacred Host, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, in the founding of the Holy Church, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, in the Sacrament of Holy Baptism, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, in our justification through Jesus Christ, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, accompanying us through our whole life, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, embracing us especially at the hour of death, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, endowing us with immortal life, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, accompanying us at every moment of our life, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, shielding us from the fire of hell, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, in the conversion of hardened sinners, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, astonishment for Angels, incomprehensible to Saints, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, unfathomed in all the mysteries of God, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, lifting us out of every misery, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, source of our happiness and joy, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, in calling us forth from nothingness to existence, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, embracing all the works of His hands, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, crown of all of God’s handiwork, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, in which we are all immersed, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, sweet relief for anguished hearts, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, only hope of despairing souls, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, repose of hearts, peace amidst fear, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, delight and ecstasy of holy souls, I trust in You.

Divine Mercy, inspiring hope against all hope, I trust in You.

Selected Prayers from The Diary of Saint Faustina
http://www.keepsakesbyleo.com/Documents/Diary%20Prayers.htm

Friday, March 31, 2006

Quotes from Simone Weil

A doctrine serves no purpose in itself, but it is indispensable to have one if only to avoid being deceived by false doctrines.

A hurtful act is the transference to others of the degradation which we bear in ourselves.

A mind enclosed in language is in prison.

A self-respecting nation is ready for anything, including war, except for a renunciation of its option to make war.

A test of what is real is that it is hard and rough. Joys are found in it, not pleasure. What is pleasant belongs to dreams.

All sins are attempts to fill voids.

An atheist may be simply one whose faith and love are concentrated on the impersonal aspects of God.

Attachment is the great fabricator of illusions; reality can be attained only by someone who is detached.

Beauty always promises, but never gives anything.

Charity. To love human beings in so far as they are nothing. That is to love them as God does.

Culture is an instrument wielded by teachers to manufacture teachers, who, in their turn, will manufacture still more teachers.

Difficult as it is really to listen to someone in affliction, it is just as difficult for him to know that compassion is listening to him.

Equality is the public recognition, effectively expressed in institutions and manners, of the principle that an equal degree of attention is due to the needs of all human beings.

Every perfect life is a parable invented by God.

Every time that I think of the crucifixion of Christ, I commit the sin of envy.

Evil being the root of mystery, pain is the root of knowledge.

For when two beings who are not friends are near each other there is no meeting, and when friends are far apart there is no separation.

Force is as pitiless to the man who possesses it, or thinks he does, as it is to its victims; the second it crushes, the first it intoxicates. The truth is, nobody really possesses it.

Human beings are so made that the ones who do the crushing feel nothing; it is the person crushed who feels what is happening. Unless one has placed oneself on the side of the oppressed, to feel with them, one cannot understand.

Humanism was not wrong in thinking that truth, beauty, liberty, and equality are of infinite value, but in thinking that man can get them for himself without grace.

Humility is attentive patience.

I am not a Catholic; but I consider the Christian idea, which has its roots in Greek thought and in the course of the centuries has nourished all of our European civilization, as something that one cannot renounce without becoming degraded.

I can, therefore I am.

I suffer more from the humiliations inflicted by my country than from those inflicted on her.

I would suggest that barbarism be considered as a permanent and universal human characteristic which becomes more or less pronounced according to the play of circumstances.

If Germany, thanks to Hitler and his successors, were to enslave the European nations and destroy most of the treasures of their past, future historians would certainly pronounce that she had civilized Europe.

If we are suffering illness, poverty, or misfortune, we think we shall be satisfied on the day it ceases. But there too, we know it is false; so soon as one has got used to not suffering one wants something else.

Imagination and fiction make up more than three quarters of our real life.

Imagination is always the fabric of social life and the dynamic of history. The influence of real needs and compulsions, of real interests and materials, is indirect because the crowd is never conscious of it.

In struggling against anguish one never produces serenity; the struggle against anguish only produces new forms of anguish.

In Switzerland they had brotherly love, five hundred years of democracy and peace, and what did they produce? The cuckoo clock!

In the Church, considered as a social organism, the mysteries inevitably degenerate into beliefs.

It is an eternal obligation toward the human being not to let him suffer from hunger when one has a chance of coming to his assistance.

It is only the impossible that is possible for God. He has given over the possible to the mechanics of matter and the autonomy of his creatures.

Life does not need to mutilate itself in order to be pure.

More than in any other performing arts the lack of respect for acting seems to spring from the fact that every layman considers himself a valid critic.

Most works of art, like most wines, ought to be consumed in the district of their fabrication.

Nothing can have as its destination anything other than its origin. The contrary idea, the idea of progress, is poison.

Nothing is less instructive than a machine.

One cannot imagine St. Francis of Assisi talking about rights.

Oppression that is clearly inexorable and invincible does not give rise to revolt but to submission.

Petroleum is a more likely cause of international conflict than wheat.

Purity is the power to contemplate defilement.

Real genius is nothing else but the supernatural virtue of humility in the domain of thought.

The contemporary form of true greatness lies in a civilization founded on the spirituality of work.

The danger is not lest the soul should doubt whether there is any bread, but lest, by a lie, it should persuade itself that it is not hungry.

The destruction of the past is perhaps the greatest of all crimes.

The future is made of the same stuff as the present.

The highest ecstasy is the attention at its fullest.

The love of our neighbor in all its fullness simply means being able to say to him, "What are you going through?"

The most important part of teaching is to teach what it is to know.

The mysteries of faith are degraded if they are made into an object of affirmation and negation, when in reality they should be an object of contemplation.

The only hope of socialism resides in those who have already brought about in themselves, as far as is possible in the society of today, that union between manual and intellectual labor which characterizes the society we are aiming at.

The payment of debts is necessary for social order. The non-payment is quite equally necessary for social order. For centuries humanity has oscillated, serenely unaware, between these two contradictory necessities.

The poison of skepticism becomes, like alcoholism, tuberculosis, and some other diseases, much more virulent in a hitherto virgin soil.

The proper method of philosophy consists in clearly conceiving the insoluble problems in all their insolubility and then in simply contemplating them, fixedly and tirelessly, year after year, without any hope, patiently waiting.

The real stumbling-block of totalitarian regimes is not the spiritual need of men for freedom of thought; it is men's inability to stand the physical and nervous strain of a permanent state of excitement, except during a few years of their youth.

The role of the intelligence - that part of us which affirms and denies and formulates opinions is merely to submit.

There can be a true grandeur in any degree of submissiveness, because it springs from loyalty to the laws and to an oath, and not from baseness of soul.

There is no detachment where there is no pain. And there is no pain endured without hatred or lying unless detachment is present too.

Those who are unhappy have no need for anything in this world but people capable of giving them their attention.

To be a hero or a heroine, one must give an order to oneself.

To be rooted is perhaps the most important and least recognized need of the human soul.

To get power over is to defile. To possess is to defile.

To set up as a standard of public morality a notion which can neither be defined nor conceived is to open the door to every kind of tyranny.

To want friendship is a great fault. Friendship ought to be a gratuitous joy, like the joys afforded by art or life.

To write the lives of the great in separating them from their works necessarily ends by above all stressing their pettiness, because it is in their work that they have put the best of themselves.

Two prisoners whose cells adjoin communicate with each other by knocking on the wall. The wall is the thing which separates them but is also their means of communication. It is the same with us and God. Every separation is a link.

We are like horses who hurt themselves as soon as they pull on their bits - and we bow our heads. We even lose consciousness of the situation, we just submit. Any re-awakening of thought is then painful.

We can only know one thing about God - that he is what we are not. Our wretchedness alone is an image of this. The more we contemplate it, the more we contemplate him.

We must prefer real hell to an imaginary paradise.

What a country calls its vital economic interests are not the things which enable its citizens to live, but the things which enable it to make war. Petrol is more likely than wheat to be a cause of international conflict.

Whatever debases the intelligence degrades the entire human being.

When a contradiction is impossible to resolve except by a lie, then we know that it is really a door.

When once a certain class of people has been placed by the temporal and spiritual authorities outside the ranks of those whose life has value, then nothing comes more naturally to men than murder.

Who were the fools who spread the story that brute force cannot kill ideas? Nothing is easier. And once they are dead they are no more than corpses.

Why is it that reality, when set down untransposed in a book, sounds false?

With no matter what human being, taken individually, I always find reasons for concluding that sorrow and misfortune do not suit him; either because he seems too mediocre for anything so great, or, on the contrary, too precious to be destroyed.

http://www.brainyquote.com/quotes/authors/s/simone_weil.html

Thursday, March 30, 2006

Enjoying and Enduring

"The art of life is to know how to enjoy a little and to endure very much."
~ William Hazlitt

Wednesday, March 22, 2006

John Stott - Why I Am a Christian

For the son of man came to seek and to save what was lost.
~ Luke 19:10

Chapter One - The Hound Of Heaven

Because I am writing on why I am a Christian, I cannot avoid being personal and telling my story. Looking back over a long life, I have often asked myself what it was that brought me to Christ. As I have said already, it was neither my parental upbringing nor my own independent choice; it was Christ himself knocking at my door, drawing attention to his presence outside.

He did this in two major ways. The first was my sense of estrangement from God. I was no atheist. I believed in the existence of God—someone or something somewhere, the ultimate reality behind and beyond all phenomenon. But I could not find him. I used to visit a dark little chapel in the school I was attending in order to read religious books and recite prayers. All to no avail. God was remote and aloof; I was unable to penetrate the fog that seemed to envelop him.

The second way in which I heard Christ knocking at my door was through my sense of defeat. With a vibrant idealism of youth I had a heroic picture of the sort of person I wanted to be—kind and unselfish and public-spirited. But I had an equally clear picture of who I was—malicious, self centered and proud. The two pictures did not coincide. I was high-idealed but weak-willed.

Yet through my sense of alienation and failure the Stranger at the door kept knocking, until the preacher I mentioned at the beginning of this chapter threw light on my dilemma. He spoke to me of the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ. He explained that Christ had died to turn my estrangement into reconciliation and had been raised from the dead to turn my defeat into victory. The correspondence between my subjective need and Christ’s objective offer seemed too close to be a coincidence. Christ’s knocking became louder and more insistent. Did I open the door, or did he? Truly I did, but only because by his persistent knocking he had made it possible, even inevitable.

I have told you my story; I wonder about yours. Jesus assures us in his parables that, whether or not we are consciously seeking God, he is assuredly seeking us. He is like a woman who sweeps her house in search of a lost coin; like a shepherd who risks the dangers of the desert in search of only one lost sheep; and like a father who misses his wayward son and allows him to taste the bitterness of his folly, but is ready at any moment to run to meet him and welcome him home.

Why I am a Christian, pages 29-30
John Stott
former Rector of All Souls Church in London
author of Basic Christianity, The Cross of Christ and The Imcomparable Christ

Reframing Pain

Reframing Pain:
When pain is good:
When it tells you you have to pay attention to it.
When it breaks you open, making you bigger.
When it connects you with the pain of others.
When it forces you to look at the world differently.
When it reminds you that you are alive.
When it compels you to be honest.
When it makes you understand that it is inevitable.
When you recognize it as one of the most intense, and potentially, valuable, experiences in your life.
-- Jerusha Hull McCormack in Grieving: A Beginner's Guide

Saturday, March 18, 2006

Ladies First

Ask Yahoo
Thursday March 6, 2006

What is the origin of the phrase "ladies first"?

Speculation abounds about the origin of this tradition. Some say it began during Victorian times. Others believe it stemmed from men being concerned about assassination attempts and walking behind women when entering or exiting buildings. We don't know if they were using the women as shields, or if they were being chivalrous in fending off rear attacks.

Our favorite answer, however, comes from "By the Light of My Father's Smile," by Alice Walker: "It is because, in the early days, if we were permitted to walk behind the man, we would run away. If we were kept in front, they could keep an eye on us."

According to Chabad.org, a site that reports on Judaism and the Torah, the "ladies first" rule is a very old tradition. The story goes that when Moses was instructed to inform the people of Israel about the Torah, he was told to "speak to the house of Jacob, and tell the sons of Israel." Since the house of Jacob appears first in the instructions, and it refers to women, the theory follows that Moses had to speak first with the ladies. Probably a smart political move.

http://ask.yahoo.com/20060316.html

additional information from http://www.jewishencyclopedia.com/view.jsp?artid=504&letter=E&search=house%20of%20Jacob

The principle "ladies first" has Biblical authority according to the Rabbis. The most important message of Moses to prepare the Israelites for the reception of the Torah on Mount Sinai was addressed first to the women and then to the men ("Thus shalt thou say to the house of Jacob [women], and tell the children of Israel [men]": Ex. xix. 3, according to Mekilta, ib. 2 [ed. Friedmann, p. 62b]).

The Need for Focused Attention

"Every child needs focused attention -- genuine encounter -- to feel loved. Your child is likely to view continual distancing -- concern with the past, future, schedules, and tasks -- as lack of love. He can only feel lovable if you take time to be fully with his person. Make a habit of being open to the wonder of your child in the here-and-now. Check yourself frequently on your focused attention rating."

Your Child's Self-Esteem
Dorothy Corkille Briggs

Friday, March 17, 2006

Loving Christ and Mortal Man

"She is dedicated to the memory of her husband," Tommaso told Michelangelo. "Since his death she has loved only Jesus."
Michelangelo:
"If the love of Christ prevented a woman from loving mortal man, the Italian people would have died out long ago."

The Agony and the Ecstasy: the biographical novel of Michelangelo
Irving Stone

Thursday, March 16, 2006

Truth and Facts

The truth is more important than the facts.
- Frank Lloyd Wright

Tuesday, March 14, 2006

Keep the Audience Awake

from the Tuesday, March 14, 2006 Philadelphia Inquirer:

SPRINGFIELD, Mass. - Maureen Stapleton, 80, an Oscar-winning character actress whose subtle vulnerability and down-to-earth toughness earned her dramatic and comedic roles on stage, screen and television, died yesterday. The longtime smoker died from chronic pulmonary disease. ...

"There are many roads to good acting," Ms. Stapleton, known for her straightforwardness, said in her 1995 autobiography, Hell of a Life. "I've been asked repeatedly what the 'key' to acting is, and as far as I'm concerned, the main thing is to keep the audience awake."

Maureen Stapleton was brought up in a strict Irish Catholic family.

www.philly.com/mld/inquirer/news/obituaries/14091764.htm
by Adam Gorlick, Associated Press

Thursday, March 09, 2006

Interests at Stake

"A liberal is a person whose interests aren't at stake at the moment."
- Willis Player

Wednesday, March 08, 2006

How were you built?

The wall of hatred was asked, "How were you built?"
And the reply was, "From the stones of insults."
~ Spanish proverb

Saturday, March 04, 2006

How close to success

Many of life's failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.
~ Thomas A. Edison (1847 - 1931)

Unity and Comprehension in a stormy and divided age

MOVEMENTS & TRADITIONS
A Pen in God's Hand
Richard Baxter wrote, preached, taught, and visited his way to become the model pastor.
By Paul C.H. Lim

On July 28, 1875, the town of Kidderminster in the English Midlands witnessed a rare moment of Christian unity. After over 200 years of deep Protestant divisions, clergy from all denominations came together for the unveiling and dedication of the statue of a Puritan preacher.

The inscription at the base of the statue read, "Between the years 1641 and 1660 this town was the scene of the labors of Richard Baxter, renowned equally for his Christian learning and his pastoral fidelity. In a stormy and divided age he advocated unity and comprehension, pointing the way to everlasting rest."

Baxter himself would have been pleased by the ecumenical spirit of the event. Refusing to be boxed into any party or sect, he called himself a "mere Christian"—a phrase that would influence C. S. Lewis centuries later—and spent his life trying to persuade his fellow Protestants to reconcile their doctrinal and political differences and work together towards holiness. "In necessary things, unity; in doubtful things, liberty; in all things, charity" was his motto.

http://www.christianitytoday.com/ch/2006/001/4.17.html

Friday, March 03, 2006

Hunting Down Errors

"There are sadistic scientists who hurry to hunt down errors instead of establishing the truth."
~ Marie Curie

Tuesday, February 28, 2006

Life is a puzzle, come here for the missing peace.

Churches use signs of the times

Life is a puzzle, come here for the missing peace.
Sermon: Love Thy Neighbor. Guests welcome!
Extreme Makeover, Transforming Your Life: New Year, New You?
The Christian Faith Gets Physical!
Holiday rush got you down? Come here for a faith lift.
If you drive thru Mon-Fri stop by on Sunday.
Friends don't let friends go to hell.
It's a good thing God changes lives quicker than we do our sign!

from a news story by Lisa Pupo,
Philadelphia Inquirer, Feb. 28, 2006
www.philly.com/mld/inquirer/news/opinion/local2/region/13977651.htm?template=contentModules/printstory.jsp

Monday, February 27, 2006

Happy IVGLDSW Day!

Today is International Very Good Looking, Darn Smart Woman's Day, so please send this message to someone you think fits this description. Please do not send it back to me as I have already received it from a Very Good Looking, Darn Smart Woman!

And remember this motto to live by: Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, chocolate in one hand, wine in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming "WOO HOO what a ride!" Have a wonderful day!

To Us!!

Inside every older person is a younger person -- wondering what the heck happened.
-Cora Harvey Armstrong-

The hardest years in life are those between ten and seventy.
-Helen Hayes (at 73)-

I refuse to think of them as chin hairs. I think of them as stray eyebrows.
-Janette Barber-

Things are going to get a lot worse before they get worse.
-Lily Tomlin-

My second favorite household chore is ironing. My first one being -- hitting my head on the top bunk bed until I faint.
-Erma Bombeck-

Old age ain't no place for sissies.
-Bette Davis-

A man's got to do what a man's got to do. A woman must do what he can't.
-Rhonda Hansome-

The phrase "working mother" is redundant.
-Jane Sellman-

Every time I close ! the door on reality, it comes in through the windows.
-Jennifer Unlimited-

Thirty-five is when you finally get your head together and your body starts falling apart.
-Caryn Leschen-

I try to take one day at a time -- but sometimes several days attack me at once.
-Jennifer Unlimited-

If you can't be a good example -- then you'll just have to be a horrible warning.
-Catherine-

I'm not offended by all the dumb blonde jokes because I know I'm not dumb -- and I'm also not blonde.
-Dolly Parton-

If high heels were so wonderful, men would still be wearing them.
-Sue Grafton-

I'm not going to vacuum 'til Sears makes one you can ride on.
-Roseanne Barr-

In politics, if you want anything said, ask a man. If you want anything done, ask a woman.
-Margaret Thatcher-

I have yet to hear a man ask for advice on how to combine marriage and a career.
-Gloria Steinem-

Nobody can make you feel inferior without your permission.
-Eleanor Roosevelt-

Saturday, February 25, 2006

Modern Crucifixion

"If Jesus Christ were to come again today, people would not even crucify him. They would ask him to dinner, and hear what he had to say, and make fun of it."

~ Thomas Carlyle (1795-1881),
19th-century British historian.

Friday, February 24, 2006

"I'd rather be happy than right."

Make yourself happy instead of right.
"Start evaluating the things you do in your relationship based on whether those thoughts, feelings and actions are working. For example, you don't have to prove over and over that you know what you're talking about more than your partner. Instead, choose a different emotion such as tolerance, understanding or compassion that does not escalate hostility in your relationship. By deciding to be happy rather than right, you will be receptive to your partner's attempts to de-escalate hostility and return to civil interactions."

~ Dr. Phil

http://www.drphil.com/
articles/article/81

Live Well ♥ Laugh Often ♥ Love Much

Live Well ♥ Laugh Often ♥ Love Much

a sense that he truly respected what they did

Harvard: Rich, prestigious and unmanageable?

CNN.com, Thursday, February 23, 2006; Posted: 9:54 a.m. EST
(bold added by blogger)

BOSTON, Massachusetts (AP) -- Leading the world's wealthiest and probably most famous university sounds like the plummiest job in academe -- with a staff, a house, and a half-million dollar salary among the many perks.

But running Harvard isn't easy. Neil Rudenstine, school president from 1991 to 2001, was forced to take a leave of absence for exhaustion in 1994. His successor, Lawrence Summers, announced Tuesday he would resign June 30 after a tumultuous five years, his ambitious agenda to get Harvard's territorial undergraduate and professional schools on the same page done in by faculty revolts and a brusque management style. . . .

"Universities have been around for a long time. It's not unusual to have blips like this," said David Ward, president of the American Council on Education. "I think it becomes serious when you have four or five presidents in a row who only last two or three years."

The choice will have to be someone who knows how to get things done in the unusual structure of a university, where faculty -- as they proved with Summers -- hold many of the cards.

"The question is can you buy them off with love," said Claudia Goldin, an economics professor. "That's cheap, but it takes someone to do it. And Larry didn't have the ability to buy them off with love and kindness and affection and a sense that he truly respected what they did, though deep down inside he does."

http://www.cnn.com/2006/EDUCATION/02/23/
harvard.future.ap/index.html

Tuesday, February 21, 2006

Anger

Anger comes from pain, fear, or frustration.
The best way to reduce anger is to adjust your expectations to be more realistic.
We try to control the external world because we feel chaos inside.
We can't control life.
Just try to get through today and try to find joy.
Don't expect to control everything.

~ Dr. Phil, Feb. 21, 2006

Friday, February 17, 2006

Go to Sleep, Angelo

from a sermon by Rev. Dr. David McKane
PARABLES OF THE KINGDOM
Delivered July 17,2005
First-St. Andrew’s United Church of Canada
London, Ontario, Canada
http://www.fsaunited.london.on.ca/
Worship/20050717.html
Pope John 23rd was one of God’s great saints. He was a deeply humble man with a great sense of humour. He was born into a farming family of thirteen children and once said that the family was so poor that there was no wine for the children.

"There are three ways to ruin your life," he once told the press with a twinkle in his eye, "gambling, loose women, and farming. My father chose the most boring."

Every evening he would end his prayers by asking himself, "Who governs the church? You or the Holy Spirit?
Very well, then, go to sleep, Angelo."

Angelo Guiseppe Roncalli, Pope John 23rd



from a sermon by the Rev. Dr. David E. Leininger:
WHOSE CHURCH IS IT ANYWAY?
Delivered 7/14/96
First Presbyterian Church, Warren, Pennsylvania
http://www.presbyterianwarren.com/
whose.html
Perhaps you are familiar with the name Angelo Roncalli. You may know him better by the name he took late in life, Pope John XXIII. It is safe to say the John XXIII made more of an impact on the life of the Christian church than anyone since Martin Luther. It was John XXIII who was responsible for the sweeping changes brought about by Vatican II - a less legalistic approach to faith, worship in the language of the people, an openness to non-Catholic Christians, to name just a few.

It is said that Pope John's bedtime prayer was routinely the kind of conversation between himself and the Lord that prayer ought to be. As he reflected on the events of the day, the trials and tribulations of leadership, he heard, "Whose church is it anyway? Yours? or Mine?" There would be no need to respond. Then he would hear, "Very well then. Go to sleep, Angelo. Go to sleep."

Loneliness

"At times loneliness will weigh heavily on the priest, but not for that reason will he regret having generously chosen it. He who has chosen to belong completely to Christ will find, above all, in intimacy with him and in his grace, the power of spirit necessary to banish sadness and regret and to triumph over discouragement."

Pope Paul VI
http://www.elibronquotations.com/
cat.phtml?sctnid=152&page=4

Productivity

The following quotes are from Sally McGhee:
Small things done consistently in strategic places have major impact.

The truth is, most people use only 15 percent of what they file, and this makes the other 85 percent ineffective.

A simple test for deciding whether to keep information is to ask yourself these questions:
* Does the information relate to one of your meaningful objectives? If not, delete it.
* Can you find the information somewhere else, such as another department, a SharePoint site, your company intranet, or the Internet? If so, delete it.
* Are you likely to refer to the information in the next six months? If not, delete it.
* Do you have to keep the information because it is legal or human resources information? If not, delete it.

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Friday, February 10, 2006

Philadelphia Presbytery spreading the Gospel

In 1707, Philadelphia Presbytery sought to establish by common consent a “uniformity of procedure in the interests of spreading the Gospel:”
First, That every minister in their respective congregations, read and comment upon a chapter of the Bible every Lord's day, as discretion and circumstances of time, place, &c., will admit.
Second over: That it be recommended to every minister of the Presbytery to set on foot and encourage private Christian societies.
Third over: That every minister of the Presbytery supply neighboring desolate places where a minister is wanting, and opportunity of doing good offers.

From 1706 to 1716 the number of ministers increased from seven to seventeen.

from Presbyterians in Colonial Pennsylvania, Guy Soulliard Klett. Philadelphia: University of Pennsylvania Press, 1937, pages 46-7, 50.

Find one person who can be supportive

The important thing is to keep pursuing what you love. Keep honing and developing those skills.
Everyone else may say "You should be this and that." They probably mean well. They might love you.

Be kind to them, be respectful of them, but hang out with somebody else.
Find one person, just one person, who can be supportive of what you are doing.

~ David Amram, musician

Difficult vs. Impossible

Google Quote of the Day:

"Men are generally idle, and ready to satisfy themselves, and intimidate the industry of others, by calling that impossible which is only difficult."

-- Samuel Johnson

Friday, February 03, 2006

Men and Women Minding Their Own Business

This is so true!

Letters To An American Lady
-- C.S. Lewis

“I have a notion that, apart from actual pain, men and women are quite diversely afflicted by illness. To a woman one of the great evils about it is that she can’t do things. To a man (anyway a man like me) the great consolation is the reflection “Well, anyway, no one an now demand that I should do anything”. I have often had the fancy that one stage in Purgatory might be a great big kitchen in which things are always going wrong — milk boiling over, crockery getting smashed, toast burning, animals stealing. The women have to learn to sit still and mind their own business: the men have to learn to jump up and do something about it. When both sexes have mastered this exercise, they go on to the next.” . . .
-- written at Magdalene College, Cambridge, 31/7/62

“My idea of the Purgatorial kitchen didn’t mean that anyone had lately been “getting in my hair”. It is simply my lifelong experience — that men are more likely to hand over to others what they ought to do themselves, and women more likely to do themselves what others wish they would leave alone. Hence both sexes must be told “Mind your own business”, but in two different senses!”
-- written at The Kilns, Headington Quarry, Oxford, 3 Sept 62

pages 102-4

The Sin of Hiding

I think that the following Mitazi Minor article is extreme on the side of feminism, especially the naive, condescending, and disrespectful view that the Syro-Phoenician woman "bested him in the argument." However, she makes some good points and the "sin of hiding" is descriptive of people I know.

I like better the C.S. Lewis quote from Letters To An American Lady (see previous blog entry):

“I have often had the fancy that one stage in Purgatory might be a great big kitchen in which things are always going wrong — milk boiling over, crockery getting smashed, toast burning, animals stealing. The women have to learn to sit still and mind their own business: the men have to learn to jump up and do something about it. . . . It is simply my lifelong experience — that men are more likely to hand over to others what they ought to do themselves, and women more likely to do themselves what others wish they would leave alone. Hence both sexes must be told “Mind your own business”, but in two different senses!”


following is quoted from:
SPIRITUALITY TODAY
Summer 1991, Vol.43 No. 2, pp. 134-141
http://www.spiritualitytoday.org/spir2day/91432minor.html

Mitzi Minor:
The Women of the Gospel of Mark
and Contemporary Women's Spirituality

bold font added by blogger:
CONTEMPORARY women who are seeking to nurture the spirituality both of themselves and of other women have discovered the need of women to develop their own sense of self, to become fully human, so that they are able to relate to God and to others as whole persons capable of developing and sharing their vital energies and creativity with the world. This need is a result of the reinforcement by most patterns of family and education of two roles for women: (1) women are socialized into being desirable objects who dress, think, and act in order to receive acceptance and adulation, especially from men; (2) women are socialized to live for others, that is, to submerge themselves in others' identities, needs, interests.(1) A woman who has been so socialized can give up too much of herself so that nothing remains of her own uniqueness. She may come to view herself as an emptiness seemingly without value to herself, to her peers, or, perhaps, even to God, writes Valerie Saiving (37). In such circumstances, this woman's sin, instead of being encompassed by such terms as "pride" or "will-to-power" (definitions of sin constructed primarily on the basis of masculine experience)(2) requires other terms such as triviality, distractibility, lack of an organizing center, dependence on others, inability to make decisions for oneself, sentimentality, mistrust of reason, weak submissiveness, fear, self-hatred, jealousy, timidity, manipulation -- in short, underdevelopment or negation of self (Conn 37,39,11).

Susan Nelson Dunfee has called this sin "the sin of hiding" and notes that it results in a woman expending her energy not in the acceptance of her own freedom and full humanity but in running from that freedom by pouring those energies into the lives of others (319). To have a healthy spirituality, women must "repent" of this sin. Furthermore, according to Karen Barta, instead of pursuing what is often viewed as the highest Christian virtue (i.e. self-sacrificing love which makes negation of self into a virtue),(3) women must first seek to become fully human by being self-asserting and self-possessing so that they have the courage to expose themselves to the fears and dangers involved in being fully responsible for themselves (94). By such claiming of themselves they come to understand themselves as whole persons with worthy contributions to make to God's creation.

...

NOTES

(1) Joann Wolski Conn, "Women's Spirituality: Restriction and Reconstruction," in Women's Spirituality: Resources for Christian Development, ed. Joann Wolski Conn (New York: Paulist Press, 1986), 10-11. In a similar vein, Sandra M. Schneiders, "The Effects of Women's Experience on their Spirituality," also in Women's Spirituality, writes of women being socialized to "nonpublic" roles. In public roles, a woman is "male-dependent" -- the daughter of, the mother of, the sister of, the wife of someone who had a name in a way she never would" (32). Both of these articles were originally published in Spirituality Today, the former in Winter 1982 and the latter in Summer 1983.

(2) Saiving (35). See also Wendy M. Wright, "The Feminine Dimension of Contemplation," in The Feminist Mystic and Other Essays on Woman and Spirituality, ed., Mary E. Giles (New York: Crossroad, 1982), 109.

(3) Dunfee (321). Dunfee also noted that the sin of hiding actually hides under the guise of self sacrifice (322). Conn, in "Women's Spirituality," claims that "women are led to believe they are virtuous when actually they have not yet taken the necessary possession of their lives to have an authentic 'self' to give in self-donating love. They are often praised as holy when they are still spiritually dwarfed" (12).

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WORKS CITED

Barta, Karen A. The Gospel of Mark. The Message of Biblical Spirituality Series, vol. 9. Wilmington, DE: Michael Glazier, 1988.

Conn, Joann Wolski, ed. Women's Spirituality: Resources for Christian Development. New York: Paulist Press, 1986.

Dunfee, Susan Nelson. "The Sin of Hiding: A Feminist Critique of Reinhold Niebuhrs Account of the Sin of Pride." Soundings 65 (1982).

Saivin & Valerie. "The Human Situation: A Feminist View." In Womanspirit Rising. Ed. by Carol P. Christ and Judith Plaskow. San Francisco: Harper & Row, 1979.

Patience

quotes on patience from Quotations Page:

Have courage for the great sorrows of life and patience for the small ones; and when you have laboriously accomplished your daily task, go to sleep in peace. God is awake.
-- Victor Hugo (1802 - 1885)

A great preservative against angry and mutinous thoughts, and all impatience and quarreling, is to have some great business and interest in your mind, which, like a sponge shall suck up your attention and keep you from brooding over what displeases you.
-- Joseph Rickaby

Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Do not lose courage in considering you own imperfections but instantly set about remedying them - every day begin the task anew.
-- Saint Francis de Sales

Patience serves as a protection against wrongs as clothes do against cold. For if you put on more clothes as the cold increases, it will have no power to hurt you. So in like manner you must grow in patience when you meet with great wrongs, and they will then be powerless to vex your mind.
-- Leonardo da Vinci (1452 - 1519)

Learn the art of patience. Apply discipline to your thoughts when they become anxious over the outcome of a goal. Impatience breeds anxiety, fear, discouragement and failure. Patience creates confidence, decisiveness, and a rational outlook, which eventually leads to success.
-- Brian Adams

It is very strange that the years teach us patience - that the shorter our time, the greater our capacity for waiting.
-- Elizabeth Taylor (1932 - ), "A Wreath of Roses"

Good ideas are not adopted automatically. They must be driven into practice with courageous patience.
-- Hyman Rickover (1900 - 1986)

How poor are they who have not patience! What wound did ever heal but by degrees.
-- William Shakespeare (1564 - 1616)

Patience is the companion of wisdom.
-- Saint Augustine (354 AD - 430 AD)

He that can have patience can have what he will.
-- Benjamin Franklin (1706 - 1790)

It is hard to have patience with people who say "There is no death" or "Death doesn't matter." There is death. And whatever is matters. And whatever happens has consequences, and it and they are irrevocable and irreversible. You might as well say that birth doesn't matter.
-- C. S. Lewis (1898 - 1963)

With time and patience the mulberry leaf becomes a silk gown.
-- Chinese proverb

Fortune knocks but once, but misfortune has much more patience.
-- Dr. Laurence J. Peter

Genius is only a greater aptitude for patience.
-- George-Louis Leclerc de Buffon

All human power is a compound of time and patience.
-- Honore de Balzac (1799 - 1850)

Through patience a ruler can be persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone.
-- Proverbs 25:15

Teach us, O Lord, the disciplines of patience, for to wait is often harder than to work.
-- Peter Marshall

Knowing trees, I understand the meaning of patience. Knowing grass, I can appreciate persistence.
-- Unknown

For want of self-restraint many men are engaged all their lives in fighting with difficulties of their own making, and rendering success impossible by their own cross-grained ungentleness; whilst others, it may be much less gifted, make their way and achieve success by simple patience, equanimity, and self-control.
-- Smiles

Man was born to be rich, or grow rich by use of his faculties, by the union of thought with nature. Property is an intellectual production. The game requires coolness, right reasoning, promptness, and patience in the players. Cultivated labor drives out brute labor.
-- Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803 - 1882)

Only those who have the patience to do simple things perfectly ever acquire the skill to do difficult things easily.
-- Author Unknown

There are times when God asks nothing of his children except silence, patience and tears.
-- C. S. Robinson

They who lack talent expect things to happen without effort. They ascribe failure to a lack of inspiration or ability, or to misfortune, rather than to insufficient application. At the core of every true talent there is an awareness of the difficulties inherent in any achievement, and the confidence that by persistence and patience something worthwhile will be realized. Thus talent is a species of vigor.
--Eric Hoffer (1902 - 1983)

An ounce of patience is worth a pound of brains.
-- Dutch

Patience is bitter, but its fruit is sweet.
-- Aristotle (384 BC - 322 BC)

It is not necessary for all men to be great in action. The greatest and sublimest power is simple patience.
-- Horace Bushnell

Whoever is out of patience is out of possession of his soul. Men must not turn into bees, and kill themselves in stinging others.
-- Sir Francis Bacon (1561 - 1626)

It seems to me probable that anyone who has a series of intolerable positions to put up with must have been responsible for them in some extent; not that it was simply "their fault" - I don't mean that- but that they have contributed to it by impatience, or intolerance, or brusqueness- or some provocation.
-- Robert Hugh Benson

Sunday, January 29, 2006

Running With the Pack

The values of the secular world:

"In politics you must always keep running with the pack. The moment that you falter and they sense that you are injured, the rest will turn on you like wolves."

~ R. A. Butler
British (Indian-born) politician (1902 - 1982)

Friday, January 27, 2006

"Naughtiness is a child's protest against a perceived injustice."

EdmontonSun.com
www.edmontonsun.com

quote below, bold added:
LOS ANGELES -- Nanny McPhee, a dark yet delicious children's movie, deals boldly with an age-old question in parenting: What do you do with naughty children?

In life, writer-actress Emma Thompson admits she does not have a clue. She even confesses to falling into a total emotional collapse when wrestling with the demons which occasionally inhabit her own spirited daughter, six-year-old Gaia (whom she shares with second husband, actor Greg Wise).

"Generally speaking," Thompson says with a laugh, "I often will end up weeping on the floor saying, 'I don't know how to discipline you! I don't know what to do now!'

"And my daughter has come up to me, looked at me weeping, sitting on the floor, given me a hankie and said, 'Let's have a game of cards.' I've also taught her how to make bloody marys now, so she knows kind of how to calm me down and it's all right now. Actually, in all seriousness, I think it's very difficult to know (what to do)."

In the movies, however, Thompson's title character in Nanny McPhee has some answers. They involve magic but also rely on human ingenuity, a child's cleverness and simple but forthright communication between generations.

Thompson says there is also one truth that unites the seven very naughty Brown children in the movie and most naughty children in real life. "Parents always think it's the kids' fault. If they're naughty, it's the kids' fault. Not true! Children generally are not naughty for no reason."

Those reasons, she says, usually involve an adult who does something, says something or ignores the children when they do and say things that demand close attention. Naughtiness is a child's protest against a perceived injustice, Thompson says. So acting out is sometimes a good thing.

Wednesday, January 25, 2006

Fear They Won't Be Loved

Many women have more power than they recognize, and they're very hesitant to use it, for they fear they won't be loved.
-- Patricia Schroeder

The Masculine Goal of One-Upmanship

As females expand their power base beyond the powder room, one of their greatest challenges will be to resist the masculine goal of one-upmanship, a goal that can feel as ill-fitting to a woman as a man-tailored suit.
-- Rita Freedman

Sunday, January 22, 2006

Fishing: Pelicans Caught Unprepared

Pelicans Caught Unprepared

I recently read an article about some pelicans in California. If you’ve ever seen pelicans in action, you know they’re great fishermen, or fisher-birds, I guess. These pelicans were hanging out near a fleet of fishing boats. The fishermen on the boats would pull into the little harbor, and clean the fish right on the spot, throwing the heads and the rest into the water. The pelicans picked up on this, and began eating the leftovers without having to go out fishing. And if you’re a pelican, that’s good eating. So for weeks, they just sat by the harbor and waited for the fishing boats to come in.

After a while, the fishermen found out they could sell the fish waste, and so they stopped chucking it into the water. The pelicans were caught unprepared. They continued to sit and wait for the fishing boats to come in and throw free food in the water. And they grew thinner and thinner and seemed able to do nothing about their situation.

Wildlife officials came to check out what was going on, and concluded that the pelicans had forgotten how to fish. So what they did was to bring pelicans in from another area to join the flock and teach the starving birds how to fish again.

The Reverend Dr. Gary Nicolosi
______________________

Nostalgic Fishermen

Someone suggested that we imagine this fishing club where the members merely sat around swapping fish stories about the big one they landed, the whopper that broke away, but they never stepped into a boat or cast their line in the water. What kind of a fishing club would it be whose members were content to admire the trophies on the wall but never go out and actually go fishing?

A lot of churches are like that. They sit around bragging about the days when their boat was full of fresh fish. They look nostalgically to the days when the main purpose of their church was to go fishing, to reach others for Christ. But they never actually go fishing; they merely talk about going fishing. That's not what we're about as a church.

Dr. Mickey Anders, “Go Fish”
________________________

Tips for Fishing

What are some of the tips we need to remember as we fish for disciples?

Go where the fish are. Be with people on their own turf.
Be real, be vulnerable, and be honest.
Be creative. We don’t have to do things the same old way.
Be spiritual, but not "churchy".
Be patient
Be ready for surprises!
Be willing to step out of your comfort zone.
Be on the lookout for where God is at work.
Be praying.

Rev. Linda A. Jacobus, “Forgetting How to Fish”

Thursday, January 05, 2006

The Joys of Life

"Life should NOT be a journey to the grave
    with the intention of arriving safely
      in an attractive and well-preserved body,
but rather to skid in sideways ,
  chocolate in one hand,
    glass of wine in the other,
      body thoroughly used up,
        memory full of friends and adventures,
          heart full of love,
totally worn out
  and screaming "YAA HOO" - what a ride".

-- Author Unknown

A "really old" losing coach has a flawed winning season

In the Philadelphia Inquirer Sports section today, Bob Ford describes the latest turnaround in Joe Paterno's career.

At the end of last year's losing season, many Penn State Lions fans agreed that Joe Paterno's winning days were over and he should resign. The Nittany Lions had lost four of the last five seasons, and Paterno was 78 years old.

A year ago, school president Graham Spanier and athletic director Tim Curley went to visit Paterno at his State College home. They went, according to published reports, to ask Paterno for his resignation.

"I said that I thought that, if I could keep the staff together and we could be stable, that we could get this thing back where it belonged," Paterno said of the meeting. "I was very emphatic about that, and they went along with me. I would think that maybe I had enough clout."

When Joe Paterno is very emphatic, he can lead the nation in emphatic. ... Paterno has always been combative, and, as with everyone who gets a little older, he hasn't really changed, but has simply become a larger, less inhibited version of himself.

Paterno believed that he could achieve a winning season. He wasn't ready to give up, and neither was the team. This year the Nittany Lions "finished off an 11-1 season with a three-overtime Orange Bowl win against Florida State on Tuesday night. The final polls will probably have them ranked No. 3 in the nation."

Paterno's determination and hard work paid off. However Ford feels that there is more to good leadership than winning games, and the end of this winning season is a good time for Paterno to retire:

It really isn't all right to make jokes about the physical appearances of other people, as Joe does, and it really isn't all right to say rude things to one's host, as Joe does, and it really, really, isn't all right to make light of an alleged sexual assault, which Joe also did this week. ("A cute girl knocks on the door, what do you do?" he said, responding to a question about FSU player A.J. Nicholson, who was sent home after being accused of committing rape at the team hotel.)

All of it is waved away because it is Paterno, and he is 79 years old, and the elderly are given a pass on decorum for some reason. It is the he-doesn't-know-any-better defense.

Well, he is the holder of a prestigious position at a state university, and that job is a privilege, not a right. The state and the university both deserve to be represented by someone who does know better and who can be held accountable for what he says and does.

If Paterno is as smart and as sharp as he claims, he will realize that the time has come - before he says something worse, before he grabs a referee and does a Woody Hayes on national television.

Posted on Thu, Jan. 05, 2006
Paterno can leave as a winner now
By Bob Ford, Philadelphia Inquirer Columnist
http://www.philly.com/mld/philly/sports/13551585.htm

Friday, December 30, 2005

Farris Hassan's Trip to Bagdad: "So I Will"

Quote from BBC news:

An American teenager is on his way back to Florida after secretly travelling to Iraq to research a journalism project. Farris Hassan, 16, did not tell his parents - who are both Iraqi - anything about his trip before leaving. ...

"I know I can't do much. I know I can't stop all the carnage and save the innocent. But I also know I can't just sit here," he wrote.

"Going to Iraq will broaden my mind. We kids at Pine Crest live such sheltered lives. I want to experience during my Christmas the same hardships ordinary Iraqis experience everyday, so that I may better empathize with their distress."

"If I know what is needed and what is right, but do not act on my moral conscience, I would be a hypocrite. I must do what I say decent individuals should do. I want to live my days so that my nights are not full of regrets. Therefore, I must go," he concluded.

Story from BBC NEWS:
http://news.bbc.co.uk/go/pr/fr/-/1/hi/world/middle_east/4569712.stm
Published: 2005/12/30 16:08:49 GMT


Quote from the Philadelphia Inquirer, Friday, Dec. 30, 2005:

"There is a struggle in Iraq between good and evil, between those striving for freedom and liberty and those striving for death and destruction," [Farris Hassan] wrote.
"Those terrorists are not human but pure evil. For their goals to be thwarted, decent individuals must answer justice's call for help. Unfortunately altruism is always in short supply. Not enough are willing to set aside the material ambitions of this transient world, put morality first, and risk their lives for the cause of humanity. So I will."

http://www.philly.com/mld/philly/news/nation/13511872.htm

Doggedly Blundering toward Heaven

on the humanity of the saints:
"They lost their tempers, got hungry, scolded God, were egotistical or testy or impatient in their turns, made mistakes and regretted them. Still they went on doggedly blundering toward Heaven. And they won sanctity partly by willing to be saints, not only because they encountered no temptation to be less."

Saint-Watching, Phyllis McGinley

Tuesday, December 27, 2005

Five Christian Movie Review Sites

New York Times, December 26, 2005

New Cultural Approach for Conservative Christians: Reviews,
Not Protests
By JOHN LELAND

Christian groups used to ignore movies like " Brokeback Mountain." Recently, they have been more willing to examine popular culture critically.

http://www.nytimes.com/2005/12/26/movies/26crit.html?th&emc=th

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Christian Movie Review Sites quoted in the above New York Times article:

pluggedinonline.com
Focus on the Family Web site pluggedinonline.com , which started reviewing movies in 1990, gets 800,000 monthly visitors to pluggedinonline, and 50,000 see the magazine in print, a spokeswoman said.

Christianitytodaymovies.com
The mainstream evangelical magazine Christianity Today last year started Christianitytodaymovies.com and the site gets 125,000 visitors a month.

HollywoodJesus.com
HollywoodJesus " HollywoodJesus.com" gets one million visitors a month, said its founder, David Bruce, a former Protestant minister who has also worked in television and publishing.

decentfilms.com
Decent Films Guide ( decentfilms.com ) an independent Roman Catholic site

movieguide.org
The more conservative MovieGuide, which runs on syndicated television, radio and online at movieguide.org, is a Web site dedicated to "redeeming the values of the mass media according to biblical principles."
Reviewer Mr. Snyder, who has a doctorate in film studies from Northwestern University, says "Hollywood projects a leftist homosexual agenda, which goes along with radical feminism, and a misunderstanding of what Christianity teaches."

Seminary quoted: Fuller Theological Seminary, an evangelical institution, in Pasadena, Calif.

Strategy:
quote: So far the religious reaction to "Brokeback Mountain" has been limited to the review pages. … This too represents a growing sophistication in the way conservative Christian groups engage the popular culture, said Stuart Shepard, managing editor of Focus on the Family's daily e-mail news updates, which go out to 115,000 subscribers. "We're not going to go out and protest it because it would probably play into the marketing plans of the producers," he said. "They'd say, the Christian right is opposed to this movie, so you really, really, really want to see it."
"We learned from 'Last Temptation of Christ' that if it wasn't for the protest, the film wouldn't be remembered today," Mr. Shepard said. "Our expectation is 'Brokeback Mountain' won't do as well in the heartland, but protest would bump that up."

Friday, December 23, 2005

Going Back to Normal

New York Times, Dec. 23, 2005

- QUOTATION OF THE DAY -

"There's nothing so beautiful as going back to normal."
- MAHMOUD SADAKAH, a taxi driver, on the end of New York's transit strike.

http://www.nytimes.com/2005/12/23/nyregion
/nyregionspecial3/23voices.html?th&emc=th

Wednesday, December 21, 2005

Helpful Hint

"One of the most important points to remember is the scale stamped on the inside of the pan is actually a good standard to follow."

Tiger Corporation electronic rice cooker operating instructions
Osaka, Japan

Are you OK?

"If you believe in God, and He exists, you're OK.

If you believe in God, and He doesn't exist, you're OK.

If you don't believe in God, and He doesn't exist, you're still OK.

But, if you don't believe in God, and He does EXIST, then boy you're in BIG trouble!"

--author unknown

Monday, December 19, 2005

Shine Anyway!

When you are not allowed to shine, shine anyway.
When you are discouraged from shining, shine anyway.
When you are criticized for shining, shine anyway.

Matthew 5:14-16
14 "You are the light of the world. A city built on a hill cannot be hid.
15 No one after lighting a lamp puts it under the bushel basket, but on the lampstand, and it gives light to all in the house.
16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father in heaven.

Shine anyway!

Saturday, December 10, 2005

Trying to Please Everyone

"You know, they say that a preacher who tries to please everyone is like a stray dog at a whistler's convention. ...
If you try to address every side ... in any given teaching situation, you'll be all over the place. Changes are good you won't do any one thing very well."

Dr. Richard Robert Osmer
Teaching for Faith, A Guide for Teachers of Adult Classes
video, Princeton Theological Seminary

Monday, December 05, 2005

Failure

"Failure is not an option."

movie Apollo 13, Gene Kranz (played by Ed Harris)

Statistics

"Statistics are like bathing suits. What they reveal is tantalizing, but what they conceal is crucial."

Dr. Brent A. Strawn - Candler School of Theology at Emory University

Rendering Vulnerable

"Writing is most powerful when it renders both the writer and the reader vulnerable."

Chris Bolin, student, poetry
Iowa Writer's Workshop