Friday, May 28, 2021

“Do you love me?”

In a famous Hasidic story, a rabbi asks his disciple: “Do you love me?”

To which the disciple replies: “Of course I love you!”

The rabbi continues. “Do you know what causes me pain?” he asks.

“Rabbi, how can I know what causes you pain?”

To which the rabbi responds: “If you do not know what causes me pain, how can you say that you love me?”


(from Rabbi Jeffrey K. Salkin)

quotes on education

 Education is what survives when what has been learned has been forgotten.

~ B.F. Skinner


Experience is a hard teacher because she gives the test first, the lesson afterward.

~ Vernon Law [baseball player] in Sports Legends on Success


My idea of education is to unsettle the minds of the young and inflame their intellects. 

~ Robert Maynard Hutchins


It is love that asks, that seeks, that knocks, that finds, and that is faithful to what it finds. 

~ St. Augustine


(from Rev. Dr. Kang Na, Westminster College)

Sunday, May 23, 2021

“Cooking is ❤️ made visible.”

“Cooking is ❤️ made visible.” 
~ KitchenAid email

Saturday, May 22, 2021

"The true soldier fights not because he hates what is in front of him, but because he loves what is behind him."

 "The true soldier fights not because he hates what is in front of him, but because he loves what is behind him." 

~ G.K. Chesterton

Thursday, May 20, 2021

"I got 99 problems, but Romans 8:1"

 "I got 99 problems, but Romans 8:1"

~ Josh Howerton, Lakepointe Church member, Rockwall, Texas
@howertonjosh
May 16, 2021

quoted in May 20, 2021 Church Humor Newsletter <newsletter@e.christianitytoday.com>   

(Romans 8:1 Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus,)

Monday, May 17, 2021

The Reality Behind the Dream of Total Freedom

"The inside joke about freedom—one that early settlers understood perfectly well and that this man would have found out soon enough—is that you’re always trading obedience to one thing for obedience to another."

The Reality Behind the Dream of Total Freedom
A walking trip with friends reveals the deeply American appeal of independence—and the truth about how much we need one another.
By Sebastian Junger
https://www.wsj.com/amp/articles/the-reality-behind-the-dream-of-total-freedom-11620919592
May 13, 2021 11:26 am ET

—This essay is adapted from Mr. Junger’s new book, “Freedom,” which will be published May 18 by Simon & Schuster.

When your child dies

... You know, my encouragement to the parents is
it is hard, and could take years and years,
but if you want to get close to your child,
get close to God. Your child is with God.

~ Victoria Osteen

Joel and Victoria Osteen on coping with tragedy
TRANSCRIPT Published December 17, 2012, 
Last Update January 8, 2015
https://www.foxnews.com/transcript/joel-and-victoria-osteen-on-coping-with-tragedy

Friday, May 14, 2021

Let's try to eliminate the afters...

 Email:

Subject: So true

 

Barely the day started and... it's already six in the evening.

Barely arrived on Monday and it's already Friday.

.. and the month is already over.

.. and the year is almost over.

.. and already 40, 50 or 60 years of our lives have passed.

.. and we realize that we lost our parents, friends.

and we realize it's too late to go back...

So... Let's try, despite everything, to enjoy the remaining time...

Let's keep looking for activities that we like...

Let's put some color in our grey...

Let's smile at the little things in life that put balm in our hearts.

And despite everything, we must continue to enjoy with serenity this time we have left.

Let's try to eliminate the afters...

I'm doing it after...

I'll say after...

I'll think about it after...

We leave everything for later like ′′ after ′′ is ours.

Because what we don't understand is that:

Afterwards, the coffee gets cold...

afterwards, priorities change...

Afterwards, the charm is broken...

afterwards, health passes...

Afterwards, the kids grow up...

Afterwards parents get old...

Afterwards, promises are forgotten...

afterwards, the day becomes the night...

afterwards life ends...

And then it's often too late....

So... Let's leave nothing for later...

Because still waiting see you later, we can lose the best moments,

the best experiences,

best friends,

the best family...

The day is today... The moment is now...

We are no longer at the age where we can afford to postpone what needs to be done right away.

So let's see if you have time to read this message and then share it.

Or maybe you'll leave it for "later"..

Thursday, May 13, 2021

“Inch by inch, anything’s a cinch.”

 “Inch by inch, anything’s a cinch.”

~ Dr. Robert Schuler

Sunday, May 09, 2021

"Talent is universal, but opportunity is not."

"Talent is universal, but opportunity is not."

~ Nicholas Kristof,
New York Times, Sunday, May 9, 2021

Tuesday, May 04, 2021

"Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always."

"Everyone you meet is fighting a battle you know nothing about. Be kind. Always."

~ Robin Williams

Wednesday, April 28, 2021

Leslie Robison: eight options to say no, with a bit of advice

from Leslie Robison's coaching and consulting blog:

Eight options to say no, with a bit of advice

https://www.masteryconsulting.net/post/yes-because-i-can-t-say-no

Here are eight options to say no, with a bit of advice: only the first four work to your advantage. Notice none of them offer a reason for declining. It’s your choice to explain your decision or not. 

1. No.

2. No, thanks.

3. Thank you for asking, but I can’t.

4. Maybe next time. 

5. Absolutely not! 

6. I would never do that!

7. Are you out of your mind? 

8. Not a snowballs’ chance in hell. 

Use them carefully, simply, and intentionally and protect your time, money, and peace of mind confidently.

On second thought, I already had plans for that time and money. Ask me another time. And thanks for asking. 

Leslie Robison, Coaching and Consulting

Saturday, April 17, 2021

"the Lord God will wipe away the tears from all faces"

Isaiah 25:6–9 NRSV

6 On this mountain the Lord of hosts will make for all peoples
a feast of rich food, a feast of well-aged wines,
of rich food filled with marrow, of well-aged wines strained clear.
7 And he will destroy on this mountain
the shroud that is cast over all peoples,
the sheet that is spread over all nations;
8 he will swallow up death forever.
Then the Lord God will wipe away the tears from all faces,
and the disgrace of his people he will take away from all the earth,
for the Lord has spoken.
9 It will be said on that day,
Lo, this is our God; we have waited for him, so that he might save us.
This is the Lord for whom we have waited;
let us be glad and rejoice in his salvation.

Wednesday, April 14, 2021

“May God in his mercy lead us through these times; but above all, may he lead us to himself.”

Dietrich Bonhoeffer, a man who stood for Christ and against not just Hitler but also the Christendom of his day, penned this benediction from prison: “May God in his mercy lead us through these times; but above all, may he lead us to himself.” 

Diane Langberg, PhD
@DianeLangberg, https://twitter.com/DianeLangberg, Apr 11, 2021

Thursday, April 01, 2021

"Kindness is the language the blind can see and the deaf can hear."

 "Kindness is the language the blind can see and the deaf can hear."

~ Mark Twain

Wednesday, March 24, 2021

"Some luck lies not in getting what you want but getting what you have . . . "

"Some luck lies not in getting what you want but getting what you have, which — once you take a good look — you may realize is what you would’ve wanted if you had only known. I’m not sure that sentence is grammatically correct but it’s true."

~ Garrison Keillor

Wednesday, March 17, 2021

"Tradition is not the worship of ashes but the preservation of fire."

"Tradition is not the worship of ashes but the preservation of fire."

~ Gustav Mahler
Austro-Bohemian Romantic composer and conductor, 1860-1911

Sunday, March 14, 2021

"Most people do not admire enough."

"Admire as much as you can. Most people do not admire enough."

~ Vincent van Gogh, Dutch post-impressionist painter

Philosophy of Atheist Auguste Comte

 “Reorganisation, irrespectively of God or king, by the worship of Humanity, systematically adopted. Man’s only right is to do his duty. The Intellect should always be the servant of the Heart, and should never be its slave.“ 

—  Auguste Comte 
Title Page A General View of Positivism (1848, 1856)
Source: https://quotepark.com/authors/auguste-comte/

(note: Warren Buffet quoted Comte in in a 1985 Berkshire Hathaway shareholder letter regarding Berkshire’s failing textile businesses:  “I ignored Comte’s advice – ‘the intellect should be the servant of the heart, but not its slave’ – and believed what I preferred to believe.”)


“Nothing is destroyed until it is replaced.”

—  Auguste Comte
https://www.azquotes.com/author/3165-Auguste_Comte


“But now, I, August Comte, have discovered the truth. Therefore, there is no longer any need for freedom of thought or freedom of the press. I want to rule and to organize the whole country.”

—  Auguste Comte
https://www.azquotes.com/author/3165-Auguste_Comte

Saturday, March 13, 2021

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.”

~ Eleanor Roosevelt, philanthropist and First Lady of the United States from March 4, 1933, to April 12, 1945, during her husband President Franklin D. Roosevelt's four terms in office