Girlfriends at the Ocean View Restaurant

GIRLFRIENDS

A group of 15-year-old girlfriends discussed where they should meet for dinner. Finally, it was agreed upon that they should meet at the Dairy Queen next to the Ocean View restaurant because they only had $6.00 between them and Jimmy Johnson, that cute boy in Social Studies, lives on that street and they might see him, and they can ride their bikes there.

10 years later, the group of 25-year-old girlfriends discussed where they should meet for dinner. Finally, it was agreed upon that they should meet at the Ocean View restaurant because the beer was cheap, they had free snacks, the band was good, there was no cover and there were lots of cute guys.

10 years later, at 35 years of age, the group once again discussed where they should meet for dinner. Finally, it was agreed upon that they should meet at the Ocean View restaurant because the cosmos were good, it was right near the gym and if they go late enough, there wouldn't be too many whiny little kids.

10 years later, at 45 years of age, the group once again discussed where they should meet for dinner. Finally, it was agreed upon that they should meet at the Ocean View restaurant because the martinis were big, and the waiters there had tight pants and nice buns.

10 years later, at 55 years of age, the group once again discussed where they should meet for dinner. Finally it was agreed they should meet at the Ocean View restaurant because the food there was reasonable, the wine list was good, they had windows that open in case of a hot flash, and fish is good for your cholesterol.

10 years later, at 65 years of age, the group once again discussed where they should meet for dinner. Finally it was agreed that they should meet at the Ocean View restaurant because lighting was good and they have an early bird special.

10 years later, at 75 years of age, the group once again discussed where they should meet for dinner. Finally it was agreed that they should meet at the Ocean View restaurant because food was not too spicy, the restaurant was handicapped accessible and they even had an elevator!

10 years later, at 85 years of age, the group once again discussed where they should meet for dinner. Finally it was agreed that they should meet at the Ocean View restaurant because they had never been there before.

~ Author Unknown

Humor

"Christianity, if false, is of no importance, and if true, of infinite importance." C.S. Lewis

"Christianity, if false, is of no importance,
and if true, of infinite importance.
The only thing it cannot be is moderately important."

~ C. S. Lewis

The Race We Are In

quote from William A. Ritter, Collected Sermons, www.Sermons.com:

Several years ago, I told you a story about one of my all-time favorite people. Not that I know her, or have even met her. But I admire her. Because one day, at age 42, in beautiful downtown Cleveland, she ran a marathon by accident (all 26 miles, 385 yards of it). 

Her name was Georgene Johnson. Still is. As you will recall, she lined up with the wrong group at the starting line. Not the 10K group, where she belonged. But the 26-mile group, where she didn't. 

It wasn't until the four-mile mark that she realized her mistake. So she just kept going, finishing the race in four hours and four minutes. 

But it's what she said later (by way of explanation) that has stayed with me since. Said Georgene: "This isn't the race I trained for. This isn't the race I entered. But, for better or worse, this is the race I'm in."

Which is true more often than you might think. Relatively few of us are exactly where we figured we'd be....doing exactly what we figured we'd be doing. But we are where we are, and (for better or worse) we're keeping our feet moving.

"​​In Essentials Unity, In Non-Essentials Liberty, In All Things Charity" ~ Rupertus Meldenius

 "​​In Essentials Unity, In Non-Essentials Liberty, In All Things Charity"

~ Rupertus Meldenius, German Lutheran theologian of the early seventeenth century

https://learn.ligonier.org/articles/essentials-unity-non-essentials-liberty-all-things

quote:

​In Essentials Unity, In Non-Essentials Liberty, In All Things Charity

Mark Ross

Philip Schaff, the distinguished nineteenth-century church historian, calls the saying in our title “the watchword of Christian peacemakers.” Often attributed to great theologians such as Augustine, it comes from an otherwise undistinguished ​German Lutheran theologian of the early seventeenth century, ​​Rupertus Meldenius. The phrase occurs in a tract on Christian unity written (circa 1627) during the Thirty Years War (1618–1648), a bloody time in European history in which religious tensions played a significant role. The saying has found great favor among subsequent writers such as Richard Baxter, and has since been adopted as a motto by the Moravian Church of North America and the Evangelical Presbyterian Church. Might it serve us well as a motto for every church and for every denomination today?

etc.

“Black care rarely sits behind a rider whose pace is fast enough.” ~ Theodore Roosevelt

“Black care,” Roosevelt later wrote of his deliverance from depression, “rarely sits behind a rider whose pace is fast enough.”

“mutual love and mutual respect”

To have a happy marriage you need “mutual love and mutual respect.”

~ Dr. Judd Shields

“40 is the old age of youth; 50 the youth of old age”

"40 is the old age of youth; 50 the youth of old age" 

~ Victor Hugo, French Romantic author, poet, essayist, playwright, journalist, human rights activist and politician, author of the novels The Hunchback of Notre-Dame and Les Misérables  (1802-1885)

“in his will is our peace" ~ Dante Alighieri

“in his will is our peace" 

~ Dante Alighieri, Italian poet, writer, and philosopher (1265-1321)

Jane Goodall - "your life matters"

"You may not know it, you may not find it, but your life matters, and you are here for a reason."

~ Jane Goodall, Conservationist

Jesus: "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven"

Matthew 7:21-2 ^ESV  -  I Never Knew You

²¹ "Not everyone who says to me, 'Lord, Lord,' will enter the kingdom of heaven, but the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven.

²² On that day many will say to me, 'Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name, and cast out demons in your name, and do many mighty works in your name?' 

²³ And then will I declare to them, 'I never knew you; depart from me, you workers of lawlessness.'"

Will we play baseball in heaven?

quote from Gordon MacDonald: 

"When I was a child, I had a Sunday school teacher who was talking about heaven one day. And she said, in heaven, everything's going to be perfect. There's going to be no sin. There's going to be no tears. 

And I raised my hand.

I said, Ms. Cummins, will we play baseball in heaven? 

She said, well, I don't know, Gordon, but I'm sure that Jesus will arrange that if you'd like to play baseball.

So I said, well, then tell me, if we play baseball, every time the pitcher throws a ball, it'll be a strike. And the batter will always hit it for a home run, and the center fielder will always catch it for an out. How does this work? 

And she said, Gordon, that's the stupidest question I've ever heard.

And some of the theologians at Denver Seminary, when I told that story, said, that was a brilliant question. That's a six-year-old describing one of the most complicated spiritual truths there is."

from Steve Macchia, Leadership Transformations, The Discerning Leader Podcast: Gordon Macdonald – Part 1 | Summer 2025: Rewind, Episode 8, Aug 21, 2025, "Gordon MacDonald on The View from 80, 15 Life and Leadership Lessons After Eight Decades on the Planet"

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-discerning-leader-podcast/id1523104085